This has always been a question in my mind. It is better to take or is it better to give. It varies a lot from people to people. 5 months into 2013, but I've gained and lost a lot. Through all these life changing lessons I have gone through, it may or may not make me a better person. Moreover, you decide what's a better person fo' yourself. Sometimes, many would like to be the strong one to give a lot and not hope for any return but in a long run, it really destroys a person. Simply because there's no one on earth who is able to give so much to others having no one to spare a lil for themselves. Also, those who receive may just take it for granted. Ultimately, I believe giving and taking is mutual ways. Both parties must give and take, there's no such thing as being the hero because you would suffer in the end. That's when things fall apart.
Is being selfish good?
If only I can be selfish and be oblivious to what others have to think of me. If only I can pretend that others' feelings doesn't matters to me. If only I am ignorant enough not to see the bigger picture. Maybe then I can dismiss all the negativity out and gain happiness out of it. Till then X.
